I often start my
blogs off with a comment about how crazy life has been and an explanation about
why I have been too busy too blog. This blog is no different. Since leaving the
radio game and moving back home to the Annapolis Valley things have been different,
busy and very adult. I know that is a weird way to explain it but we have a new
responsibility that is making us feel extremely accountable for my time, a
puppy. I have discussed getting a puppy in previous blogs, when the puppies
were born before we actually took custody of our little guy.
Now our lives are
all about Lou.
Seriously. Lou is
ruling all right now at 5 Lodge. Let me explain…
Lou looking pretty annoyed after his first bath. |
Growing up my family
always had a dog, always. Living on a big farm it was never a problem, it was
natural to have a puppy that overtime transitioned into a dog that could be
left alone and find things to do all day.
The last time I
blogged about the puppies we had not determined which one we would pick. I am
happy to announce we have a 9-week-old addition to the family who is relatively
lazy male that is about 99% cocoa chocolate lab in the sun. He is pretty much
black but it has been debated off and on since we brought him home, I think he
is just a very dark brown. To celebrate his 9-week birthday I bathed him for
the first time and he is not very happy about it. He is growing so fast, I wish
we could freeze him in time for a little while.
Life has changed in
the week and a half since we brought Lou home. We have scheduled every last
minute outside of our house so that Lou will not be alone, since he came home
he has only been left home alone for about an hour total. He was not a fan. We
have had to settle in at night a lot earlier, Lou wakes up rather early for us
and sleep levels have been rather low. Being completely honest, Lou sleeps on
the bed. I said it would never happen, but he really does not like to be alone
on his mat or in his crate in the dark.
Lou hates the car. Soon
he will be too big to hold, to carry or to even sit on my lap. If is mother is
a good indicator of his future behavior than it won’t matter how big he gets,
he will still try to be a lap dog.
Lou has definitely
been a learning experience and it is really about time that I develop a
backbone. Between the three of us we have all given in to Lou a lot. He has
been incredibly easy to teach to do his business outside, now we have to teach
him how to be alone. I think it is going to be much tougher. Working at the
restaurant I have been home all day with him and given up my gym time and the
boys have been staying at home with in the evenings while I have been at work.
This brings me to
another big piece of news, proving everything in life really does happen all at
once. I have accepted a 9-5 job in an industry I never thought I would work in,
banking. I will be taking on a marketing role with a bank in the Annapolis
Valley (I will give more details after I actually get rolling with the job on
Monday) starting Monday. As I was offered this unique opportunity to develop my
marketing skills I was also offered another opportunity in the industry I am
actually trained in, radio. I do not want to give out too many specifics
because that role has not been advertised yet, but turning it down was one of
the hardest decisions I have ever had to make.
I am very sad about
my continued temporary hiatus from the radio world, but I think this is the
best decision for the time being.
Now to wean Lou off
of all the daytime attention he has been receiving. Right now he is pretty
annoyed with me for bathing him so he has cut me off, lets see how long it
lasts!
One last thing, did
I mention how fast he is growing?
Sometimes I write my
blogs to get something off my chest or to practice writing creatively or
objectively if I have been silent for a little while. This blog is simply a
reminder to future Kate about this weird phase of life, when everything seemed
to be inconveniently coming together after a shit storm of craziness. Sorry for
the language there, but I could not think of a better way to describe the last
few months.
This is a reminder
that at a time when everything was swirling and twirling around in life (the
way it does for 25 year olds) there was a 9 week old little puppy around who
wanted nothing more than to cuddle up all day and sleep on your feet to keep
you in one place for a little while. Someday Lou will not want to slow me down,
unfortunately I fear that the day is coming soon that will have me struggling
to keep up with him. I saw hints of this today as I fought to keep him in the
bathtub. This is a reminder of his needy/toddler days when it was a challenge
for Lou to stay awake to play sometimes because his little puppy eyes needed to
nap.
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